My kids have had the privilege of getting to know a host of magical animals in their lifetime. There were our three dogs–Daisy, Bean, and Rosie; nine cats–Izzy, Blizzard, Boo, Bessie, Clarabelle, Milo, Max, Millie and Oliver; four Russian tortoises–Bonnie, Clyde, Boris and Natasha; two ferrets–Sid and Nancy; and fish in practically every room of our house. Some of them are still with us, and some of them are not.

Pets are an investment. In return for the time and money they cost, along with the messes, the heartbreak, and the inconvenience during our travels, each animal has brought my children a unique and valuable life lesson. Early on, they’ve each been instilled with kindness, empathy, patience, and responsibility.

I don’t do it all for me or my three. Mostly, I do it for my future grandchildren.