He calls it chaos; I call it art. by Merri Petrovits // February 9, 2012 Share This PostEmailGoogleTwitterFacebookPinterest For me and Doug, the dishwasher is the center of 99% of our marital disputes. Top rack or bottom? Facing forward, sideways, or backward? They are among the most elusive questions to plague domesticity since 1886. Share This PostEmailGoogleTwitterFacebookPinterest